Just Think About Fixing and Not-Fixing
Here's a thought: consider some ailment or condition and ask yourself where it falls on the fixing or moving forward continuum. 'Fixing' is reaching back to a previous desirable condition and recreating it more or less, like mending a broken bone. (Note there is nothing negative about the 'back' part—fixing is wonderful!) The alternative is 'learning forward.' And of course, almost every healing or improvement has a bit of both. But just noodle around about this a bit, for yourself, for whatever ails you or your friends, and think through whether the injury or illness is more reversible or more move-forward-able.