Looking for Connection in Social Media?

Giancarlos, a clown friend, lamented his paralysis when it comes to videos on social media. I asked him if there were any any any-thing that he actually viscerally liked about it all, and he was very funny, as clowns sometimes are. A picture of abject misery. And then he said, yes, maybe, 'connection.' Giancarlos and I are not shy, not particularly worried about 'failure' and we both come alive at the idea of connection. And we are equally paralyzed by videos and social media. Why, I wondered?